Well, life has been stressful this last week. School started (yay and boo), Jose got a mark down on his EPR, which sucks but it's being thrown out. So that's not too bad. The really crappy news: Jose found out he is number 40 on the non-selectee list to go on a remote (one year away from the family). Since Elizabeth is a Junior this year, that would mean that he would most likely miss her entire Senior year. We decided that we would rather do this on our time and not the Air Force's time. He put in for his remote yesterday. If he gets selected, he will be in place no later than February 2009. Yes, a few short months from now, we could be saying goodbye to him for a year.
So, as a family, we could move to his follow on. We made a "dream sheet" list of six bases we want to go to. We are hoping to get back to Cali close to the family. That way I would have a great support system during the year he is gone. Cross those fingers! One choice would be to stay here and live here till he gets back to assist us in the move to wherever we go. That would mean we would leave here three months before E graduates High School. Not good. So, I would move four kids, a dog, a turtle, and three vehicles across country.
Our choices are limited. We want Jose to go when we choose. We are really torn apart about making this decision. There is never a good time for a husband/father to leave for a year. Sigh. There is just sadness going on right now.
Friday, August 22, 2008
Sunday, August 17, 2008
Grrr! #*@#@!!!
Getting Alejandro's hair cut is a bigger deal than getting Elizabeth's hair cut. He is 14 and according to him, he's never had a good hair cut. Sigh. I swear. He likes looking like a mop, but going to get it "cleaned up" is an ordeal of epic proportions. Why must my son be this way? He drives me bananas.
School starts tomorrow and you'd think that I want him to have a bowl cut by the way he is acting. He doesn't dry his hair, it's wavy and just plain old messy. He looks like a girl. Getting something done to it that would make him a little more masculine is a fight. Sigh. I'm about ready to give up and say "screw it".
We'll see how it comes out, the fellas are off to the barber shop.
Edited to add: The haircut went well. Everyone came home smiling, there was no upset teen with a slamming door. LOL. He looks great and will hopefully keep up with actually styling his hair now.
School starts tomorrow and you'd think that I want him to have a bowl cut by the way he is acting. He doesn't dry his hair, it's wavy and just plain old messy. He looks like a girl. Getting something done to it that would make him a little more masculine is a fight. Sigh. I'm about ready to give up and say "screw it".
We'll see how it comes out, the fellas are off to the barber shop.
Edited to add: The haircut went well. Everyone came home smiling, there was no upset teen with a slamming door. LOL. He looks great and will hopefully keep up with actually styling his hair now.
Friday, August 15, 2008
School is starting again, and other stuff.
Today was the day the younger two got to meet their teachers. Meaning, I got to meet their teachers. They both seem really nice. I am hoping the kids get along well with them.
I met MY new teacher today too. She is just out of college and has never worked with Autism kids before. She seems really nice and sweet. She also seems like she is really trying to learn about Autism. I also found out that I would not be working with the woman that was abusive to the kids last year. Whew! I'm so thankful for that. I am now in a better mood about returning to school. YAY!
Yesterday I quit as a Mod on the board I've been a part of for a long time (8 yrs). I feel it was the best thing to do. I wish that things could be different but, they're not. So, I am not going to be an active part of that board anymore. Cliques aren't my thing, too bad it's not handled over there. Oh well. Seems the trolls are coming out of hiding now that the big bad bitch is gone. LOL. Truly pathetic that some people need the approval from people they've never met. It's sad that people buy into the bull of some of those women. What's really sad is that people go there and lie about their "perfect" lives. Or what's worse, lie about their lives being harder than they are, I call that the Cinderella syndrome.
Enough of that. Brings me down. I'm done. I've had some great supportive emails (and a phone call) from some of the women that I will keep in touch with. That has made me really happy. I knew when the chips were down, there were some that were really friends in spirit and not just in words.
I met MY new teacher today too. She is just out of college and has never worked with Autism kids before. She seems really nice and sweet. She also seems like she is really trying to learn about Autism. I also found out that I would not be working with the woman that was abusive to the kids last year. Whew! I'm so thankful for that. I am now in a better mood about returning to school. YAY!
Yesterday I quit as a Mod on the board I've been a part of for a long time (8 yrs). I feel it was the best thing to do. I wish that things could be different but, they're not. So, I am not going to be an active part of that board anymore. Cliques aren't my thing, too bad it's not handled over there. Oh well. Seems the trolls are coming out of hiding now that the big bad bitch is gone. LOL. Truly pathetic that some people need the approval from people they've never met. It's sad that people buy into the bull of some of those women. What's really sad is that people go there and lie about their "perfect" lives. Or what's worse, lie about their lives being harder than they are, I call that the Cinderella syndrome.
Enough of that. Brings me down. I'm done. I've had some great supportive emails (and a phone call) from some of the women that I will keep in touch with. That has made me really happy. I knew when the chips were down, there were some that were really friends in spirit and not just in words.
Thursday, August 14, 2008
Sally V. Garcia
I haven't gotten over here to post about it. I went back to Cali on the 4th of July. The whole way I was worried sick that she would be gone before I got there. I made it. I was warned about what I would see. I was still not prepared. She was emmaciated, and dying before my eyes. She was in so much pain that to even brush her skin with my fingertips, hurt her.
During that time, a constant prayer was running in my head. Just a constant, "Please let her live long enough for my Dad to get here and say goodbye." That was it. I did things for her that I have never done for another adult. Things that made me realize what a gift I had been given. To care for her the way she cared for me in my infant and childhood. To be able to be there to say goodbye. To let her know that I was there, that I loved her, that she could go peacefully.
I talked to her, made jokes, and cried. She waggled her eyebrows at me. She let me know that she was aware of me. She opened her eyes and looked at my Dad, then she let go. It was the most peaceful, beautiful, special moment. I was so thankful to be there for that.
This is what I posted on antoher site that sums it all up:
I got into Sacramento at about 5 on Friday (the fourth) and went straight to my Aunt's house. Gramma looked so bad. I could tell she was almost gone. It's hard to describe what it's like to see someone you love so much wasted away like that. She was breathing erratically. She wasn't on any tubes or anything except oxygen. I went in, told her I loved her, that I was there. Cracked some jokes (as hard as that was) when I laughed, she waggled her eyebrows at me. She was on a lot of morphine and methadone for the pain.
It's so strange, we only found out about the Cancer two weeks ago. Two weeks. I really believe once she heard that, she was done. She couldn't fight it and decided to quit. So, I spoke with her on the phone Sunday (she was still walking then) her voice was tired but she was still getting around. I spoke with her last Tuesday, she was very weak, couldn't speak well, super tired, no longer mobile. I got there Friday, she was completely out of it. She did open her eyes once to look at me, and was still waggling her eyebrows at my off color jokes. Saturday she had very labored breathing. I told her to please hold on, Dad was coming in at one. I called my MIL and she came with the Deacon to give Last Rites. Dad pulls up, comes in, she opens her eyes and sees him. Closes her eyes, takes one last breath and is gone. There was no gasping or fighting for air. I was so blessed to be there for that. It was so beautiful and peaceful. After all the pain she was in, God took her gently. We cried and prayed over her. She was at peace.
I know, I KNOW she waited for my Dad to get there before she let go. She chose her time. I am heart broken that my beautiful Gramma is gone. I mourn the time I missed with her. I mourn that I didn't get to see her more in the last two years. I mourn that my children didn't get a chance to know this amazing woman.
I am blessed that I got to help her in her time of need. One aunt and her husband had been caring for Gramma. An uncle had helped out a lot. I was there to help turn and change her. I was there to do for her what she had done for me when I was a baby and child. I am so thankful that I got that time with her. I am on a journey to continue her kindnesses. She would feed people that came to the door, she would always offer a place of comfort and rest. She had 9 living children, and 42 grand and great grandchildren combined.
She told someone that when she died she was coming back a blonde. LOL She is my Gramma.
During that time, a constant prayer was running in my head. Just a constant, "Please let her live long enough for my Dad to get here and say goodbye." That was it. I did things for her that I have never done for another adult. Things that made me realize what a gift I had been given. To care for her the way she cared for me in my infant and childhood. To be able to be there to say goodbye. To let her know that I was there, that I loved her, that she could go peacefully.
I talked to her, made jokes, and cried. She waggled her eyebrows at me. She let me know that she was aware of me. She opened her eyes and looked at my Dad, then she let go. It was the most peaceful, beautiful, special moment. I was so thankful to be there for that.
This is what I posted on antoher site that sums it all up:
I got into Sacramento at about 5 on Friday (the fourth) and went straight to my Aunt's house. Gramma looked so bad. I could tell she was almost gone. It's hard to describe what it's like to see someone you love so much wasted away like that. She was breathing erratically. She wasn't on any tubes or anything except oxygen. I went in, told her I loved her, that I was there. Cracked some jokes (as hard as that was) when I laughed, she waggled her eyebrows at me. She was on a lot of morphine and methadone for the pain.
It's so strange, we only found out about the Cancer two weeks ago. Two weeks. I really believe once she heard that, she was done. She couldn't fight it and decided to quit. So, I spoke with her on the phone Sunday (she was still walking then) her voice was tired but she was still getting around. I spoke with her last Tuesday, she was very weak, couldn't speak well, super tired, no longer mobile. I got there Friday, she was completely out of it. She did open her eyes once to look at me, and was still waggling her eyebrows at my off color jokes. Saturday she had very labored breathing. I told her to please hold on, Dad was coming in at one. I called my MIL and she came with the Deacon to give Last Rites. Dad pulls up, comes in, she opens her eyes and sees him. Closes her eyes, takes one last breath and is gone. There was no gasping or fighting for air. I was so blessed to be there for that. It was so beautiful and peaceful. After all the pain she was in, God took her gently. We cried and prayed over her. She was at peace.
I know, I KNOW she waited for my Dad to get there before she let go. She chose her time. I am heart broken that my beautiful Gramma is gone. I mourn the time I missed with her. I mourn that I didn't get to see her more in the last two years. I mourn that my children didn't get a chance to know this amazing woman.
I am blessed that I got to help her in her time of need. One aunt and her husband had been caring for Gramma. An uncle had helped out a lot. I was there to help turn and change her. I was there to do for her what she had done for me when I was a baby and child. I am so thankful that I got that time with her. I am on a journey to continue her kindnesses. She would feed people that came to the door, she would always offer a place of comfort and rest. She had 9 living children, and 42 grand and great grandchildren combined.
She told someone that when she died she was coming back a blonde. LOL She is my Gramma.
Thursday, July 03, 2008
Gramma Chole`
I'm sad. I hate being so far away. I hope she makes it till I can get there to visit. It's been two years since I've seen Gramma. I talked to her yesterday and she doesn't sound good at all. Three to six months is too short a time.
I think she is ready to go though. I don't think she wants to deal with the pain. She wants to see her friends again. She is one of the last.
My heart breaks for my Dad. My heart breaks for the Gramma I remember. Pray for her. Please.
I called to give her comfort and instead she gave blessings to my family. We are blessed to have known this wonderful, loving, caring, sweet woman. My memories give me comfort. So, so many memories to keep me warm in her love. So many precious memories. It's all we have left.
Jamie, remember sleeping with Gramma in her bed, we'd give back rubs to the person in front, then she'd tell us all to roll over and we'd get backrubs too.
Remember her chasing us around the yard with the metal flyswatter? Remember the kool aide that was so sweet it would make our teeth hurt? I remember learning to ride my bike in the parking lot across the street from her house, with her sitting yelling encouragement from the yard. I remember her always giving the best hugs. Telling us "tatterpillers" that she loved us.
Gramma is a butterfly, flying away from us.
I think she is ready to go though. I don't think she wants to deal with the pain. She wants to see her friends again. She is one of the last.
My heart breaks for my Dad. My heart breaks for the Gramma I remember. Pray for her. Please.
I called to give her comfort and instead she gave blessings to my family. We are blessed to have known this wonderful, loving, caring, sweet woman. My memories give me comfort. So, so many memories to keep me warm in her love. So many precious memories. It's all we have left.
Jamie, remember sleeping with Gramma in her bed, we'd give back rubs to the person in front, then she'd tell us all to roll over and we'd get backrubs too.
Remember her chasing us around the yard with the metal flyswatter? Remember the kool aide that was so sweet it would make our teeth hurt? I remember learning to ride my bike in the parking lot across the street from her house, with her sitting yelling encouragement from the yard. I remember her always giving the best hugs. Telling us "tatterpillers" that she loved us.
Gramma is a butterfly, flying away from us.
Wednesday, May 28, 2008
School's out for summa!
Well, today was the last day of school. It was a tad pleasant with a bit of unpleasant. I am happy that I will no longer have to see a few of the parents that we had this year. I'm sad to see the back of the kids. :( I'll get to see a few of them in summer school (if I get to work). I haven't found out yet if I'm working summer school, that starts in three weeks! Geez. Budget cuts are deep this year. Sigh. Hopefully since I work through a grant, I will not be cut. Fingers crossed!
Dad should be driving down here at the end of next month or so. When Elizabeth gets her license, Dad will drive down the car he is giving her. I'm kinda afraid. I have a kid that can drive! Gulp! I have two kids in high school! Gulp, gulp!
Alyssia is going into fourth grade, she got a good report card overall. YAY! Juanito did really well, lots of E's and S's. His handwriting was an N though. He is just like his Papa. Why do you think that handwriting is graded? It's something that is individual to each person, right? Doctors make hecka money and their writing can get people KILLED!
We won't find out about the older two kids grades for a week or so, they get mailed. So, their doom is coming. Dun, dun, dun. Nah, they are both doing well, at least they were as of progress reports.
So, that's all on the eastern front. Wass up? Comment.
Dad should be driving down here at the end of next month or so. When Elizabeth gets her license, Dad will drive down the car he is giving her. I'm kinda afraid. I have a kid that can drive! Gulp! I have two kids in high school! Gulp, gulp!
Alyssia is going into fourth grade, she got a good report card overall. YAY! Juanito did really well, lots of E's and S's. His handwriting was an N though. He is just like his Papa. Why do you think that handwriting is graded? It's something that is individual to each person, right? Doctors make hecka money and their writing can get people KILLED!
We won't find out about the older two kids grades for a week or so, they get mailed. So, their doom is coming. Dun, dun, dun. Nah, they are both doing well, at least they were as of progress reports.
So, that's all on the eastern front. Wass up? Comment.
Sunday, May 11, 2008
Happy Mother's Day!
It's that day again. You know, the one that says Mom's get to be spoiled rotten by either doing nothing or planning everything. LOL
We went out to dinner on Friday night, just Jose and I for sushi. Last night we went out as a family to hibachi. The kids LOOOOOOOVE Mother's day. LOL. We had a great time out.
Today after church Jose brought out the kids and presents. Elizabeth wrote me a letter and it made me cry. It was so sweet. Telling me how happy she is that I'm her Mama. Sniff. Alyssia made me a tiny candle holder with a tea candle in it. Too cute. Juanito decorated a flower pot with a flower in it. I hope I can keep that sucker alive, I seriously have a black thumb. Alejandro said he wrote me a poem but didn't have time to finish it. I don't think he loves me much. :P
I told the kids the only thing I wanted for Mother's day was to have the van cleaned inside and out. They spent a good bit of time out there cleaning the inside. We are supposed to get some severe storms later today so they will wash it after school this week. I really would rather have their time than money.
A casual day is the perfect gift.
We went out to dinner on Friday night, just Jose and I for sushi. Last night we went out as a family to hibachi. The kids LOOOOOOOVE Mother's day. LOL. We had a great time out.
Today after church Jose brought out the kids and presents. Elizabeth wrote me a letter and it made me cry. It was so sweet. Telling me how happy she is that I'm her Mama. Sniff. Alyssia made me a tiny candle holder with a tea candle in it. Too cute. Juanito decorated a flower pot with a flower in it. I hope I can keep that sucker alive, I seriously have a black thumb. Alejandro said he wrote me a poem but didn't have time to finish it. I don't think he loves me much. :P
I told the kids the only thing I wanted for Mother's day was to have the van cleaned inside and out. They spent a good bit of time out there cleaning the inside. We are supposed to get some severe storms later today so they will wash it after school this week. I really would rather have their time than money.
A casual day is the perfect gift.
Tuesday, May 06, 2008
Well she did it.
When Elizabeth was 12 she started talking about getting her eyebrow pierced. I said that if she still wanted it when she turned 16, I would take her. We just got home from having her eyebrow pierced. She wanted to have it done on her birthday, but since we were so busy on Sunday, it just wasn't possible.
She had it done and it isn't as terrible as I thought it would be. It isn't what I would want for her. I don't want her to be scarred for life, but it's up to her, it is her face after all. Sigh.
She had it done and it isn't as terrible as I thought it would be. It isn't what I would want for her. I don't want her to be scarred for life, but it's up to her, it is her face after all. Sigh.
Busy weekend
It all started Friday. I went to school for half the day, left early to drive to Pensacola (far). It's only about 120 miles but it takes three hours because Floridians are idiots that don't know the meaning of highways. Thunder Beach was going on as well, so it took even longer than usual because it was biker heaven. Thunder Beach is when all kinds of bikers come to Panama City Beach to hang out and party. Not so fun for people that live around here, excellent for store owners. I went to Pensacola to pick up my sister. YAY.
I haven't seen my sister in over two years. It was great to see her, it truly was. It was a short but sweet visit. She got to be here for Alyssia's First Communion and Elizabeth's 16th Birthday. I HAVE A 16 YR OLD!?!?!?!? So she was here for a few great days.
Saturday morning I had to get up early and go pick up onions. Our band sold onions as a fundraiser, they are phenom onions, truly. But getting up at 5 am for onions is not my idea of a great morning. Sigh. It's especially gruesome when you have to wait for rude people to show up because they don't know the meaning of being on time. grumble. After we got home (yes, I made Elizabeth go with, it's her dang band!) We took naps. Saturday was pretty lazy, except for me doing laundry all day. :P
Sunday was busy, it was Elizabeth's 16th (party to follow in a few weeks) and Alyssia had her First Communion. The face she made after tasting the wine was truly priceless!! Bleh. LOL. A good friend (I just met a few months ago but we click, ya know??) came to celebrate with us too. I think she just came for the cake though. ;) Then we went to eat lunch at the Gyro Cafe, yummo! We got home and lazed around.
Monday I put the younger two on the bus along with lots of grumbles. My sister was sleeping but heard Juanito complain about having to ride the bus. She laughed when I said, "Yes, your life is so terrible because you have to ride the bus for the second time this school year" ah, the horrors of youth. So I took her back to Pensacola to catch her flight home. $150 in gas this weekend. YIKES!
So, things have calmed a bit. Tonight we took Elizabeth to an award ceremony. She is one of 34 10th graders who made 4.0 in the first three quarters of the school year. Pretty amazing since there are over 500 students in the 10th grade.
That's my update. :)
I haven't seen my sister in over two years. It was great to see her, it truly was. It was a short but sweet visit. She got to be here for Alyssia's First Communion and Elizabeth's 16th Birthday. I HAVE A 16 YR OLD!?!?!?!? So she was here for a few great days.
Saturday morning I had to get up early and go pick up onions. Our band sold onions as a fundraiser, they are phenom onions, truly. But getting up at 5 am for onions is not my idea of a great morning. Sigh. It's especially gruesome when you have to wait for rude people to show up because they don't know the meaning of being on time. grumble. After we got home (yes, I made Elizabeth go with, it's her dang band!) We took naps. Saturday was pretty lazy, except for me doing laundry all day. :P
Sunday was busy, it was Elizabeth's 16th (party to follow in a few weeks) and Alyssia had her First Communion. The face she made after tasting the wine was truly priceless!! Bleh. LOL. A good friend (I just met a few months ago but we click, ya know??) came to celebrate with us too. I think she just came for the cake though. ;) Then we went to eat lunch at the Gyro Cafe, yummo! We got home and lazed around.
Monday I put the younger two on the bus along with lots of grumbles. My sister was sleeping but heard Juanito complain about having to ride the bus. She laughed when I said, "Yes, your life is so terrible because you have to ride the bus for the second time this school year" ah, the horrors of youth. So I took her back to Pensacola to catch her flight home. $150 in gas this weekend. YIKES!
So, things have calmed a bit. Tonight we took Elizabeth to an award ceremony. She is one of 34 10th graders who made 4.0 in the first three quarters of the school year. Pretty amazing since there are over 500 students in the 10th grade.
That's my update. :)
Thursday, April 17, 2008
I'm sorry
To whomever checks here (ha ha) for not posting, uhm, at all. :) If you do read this though, you know me a bit and know that I'm not good at keeping up with this place.
Since I've last posted, I got a new job. I work in a Pre-K Autism classroom. It's really an eye opening experience. We have six boys in our class, they all have different levels of Autism. It's really been hard to adjust. I mean, I have a brother who is severely mentally handicapped, this is so much different than that. My brother has never had aggression issues, nor any of the people in his group homes. It's strange being in a class and always having to be on guard. I've really loved working with these kids though. They've gotten under my skin and into my heart. <3
Home life is good. Juanito is playing baseball and loving it. He shows a real talent for sports. We've already signed up for Football for him, that will start this summer. Jose is going to coach. We'll see how that goes. He is a bit nervous. LOL
The kids are doing really well in school. Alejandro was accepted into the IB program and we had his ceremony on Tuesday night. He is so excited. I'm sure he will do well once he adjusts to the amount of work that will be expected from him.
Jose is really hating his job, working with the people he has to be around every day has become quite stressful. He handles it well though.
I am going to start taking classes again this summer, in addition to working summer school with my Autism kids. I need a few classes for my Bachelors. Everyone at school is pushing for me to finish school so I can teach. I'm not sure that I want to do that yet. I know that I want to teach, but I like being able to walk away as soon as the bell rings. The kids are still my main focus and until I think they can handle me not being around all the time, I will look into teaching. I don't have the time to dedicate to writing IEP's and behavior plans right now. Maybe in a few years.
I am going to try and start getting over here to post more often. It helps me remember what is going on in my life. My memory is failing me (another reason I need to finish my degree). :P
Since I've last posted, I got a new job. I work in a Pre-K Autism classroom. It's really an eye opening experience. We have six boys in our class, they all have different levels of Autism. It's really been hard to adjust. I mean, I have a brother who is severely mentally handicapped, this is so much different than that. My brother has never had aggression issues, nor any of the people in his group homes. It's strange being in a class and always having to be on guard. I've really loved working with these kids though. They've gotten under my skin and into my heart. <3
Home life is good. Juanito is playing baseball and loving it. He shows a real talent for sports. We've already signed up for Football for him, that will start this summer. Jose is going to coach. We'll see how that goes. He is a bit nervous. LOL
The kids are doing really well in school. Alejandro was accepted into the IB program and we had his ceremony on Tuesday night. He is so excited. I'm sure he will do well once he adjusts to the amount of work that will be expected from him.
Jose is really hating his job, working with the people he has to be around every day has become quite stressful. He handles it well though.
I am going to start taking classes again this summer, in addition to working summer school with my Autism kids. I need a few classes for my Bachelors. Everyone at school is pushing for me to finish school so I can teach. I'm not sure that I want to do that yet. I know that I want to teach, but I like being able to walk away as soon as the bell rings. The kids are still my main focus and until I think they can handle me not being around all the time, I will look into teaching. I don't have the time to dedicate to writing IEP's and behavior plans right now. Maybe in a few years.
I am going to try and start getting over here to post more often. It helps me remember what is going on in my life. My memory is failing me (another reason I need to finish my degree). :P
Saturday, April 12, 2008
Monday, June 18, 2007
Been awhile
I've been busy but not. You ever have times like that? I feel that time is going crazy fast but nothing is getting done. LOL.
Father's Day........I miss my Dad a lot. I talked to him a few times on the phone yesterday. I talk to him about four or five times a week, sometimes more.
I got Jose a digital picture frame, a book (Dangerous stuff or something like that), a keyboard for WoW (sigh), a bluetooth (well, we both got them, tee hee), and lunch out at Chili's yesterday. I even graciously followed him around the sporting goods store with all four kids in tow. Not my idea of fun but hey. LOL
I'm anxiously awaiting the end of the month so that we can visit my Dad. He has tons of stuff planned for while we are there. I'm just looking forward to seeing him. YAY! The kids are excited too.
Next week Jose is off to school (again) for a week. Right after he gets back we are off to Oklahoma.
My job is going well. I'm bored spitless, but it's a change from being surrounded by kids all day. LOL. It's strange though, I really, really miss the kids and I'm looking forward to school starting again. I so need a vacation though.
That's my update for now.
Father's Day........I miss my Dad a lot. I talked to him a few times on the phone yesterday. I talk to him about four or five times a week, sometimes more.
I got Jose a digital picture frame, a book (Dangerous stuff or something like that), a keyboard for WoW (sigh), a bluetooth (well, we both got them, tee hee), and lunch out at Chili's yesterday. I even graciously followed him around the sporting goods store with all four kids in tow. Not my idea of fun but hey. LOL
I'm anxiously awaiting the end of the month so that we can visit my Dad. He has tons of stuff planned for while we are there. I'm just looking forward to seeing him. YAY! The kids are excited too.
Next week Jose is off to school (again) for a week. Right after he gets back we are off to Oklahoma.
My job is going well. I'm bored spitless, but it's a change from being surrounded by kids all day. LOL. It's strange though, I really, really miss the kids and I'm looking forward to school starting again. I so need a vacation though.
That's my update for now.
Saturday, June 09, 2007
Do I look younger to you?
Today we visited the Ponce de Leon Cold Spring in Ponce de Leon Florida. It is about an hour and a few away from our house. We had a great time, except for the FREEZING ass water. The water temp there year round is 68 degrees. Do you know how cold that is? OMGosh! Seriously, it's cold. Your body kind of goes numb with that pins and needles feeling when you get it. You cannot, CANNOT go into the water a bit at a time. You have to dive right in.
The kids caught a crawdad, it was a baby one. I wish I'd have had the camera with me, but I didn't. Alyssia wanted it to pinch her, she Alejandro held it out.....it grabbed onto her finger and she screamed so loud, I swear I about wet myself. She wasn't hurt, it just pinched a bit. She flung that sucker through the air. It was hilarious!
We took two coolers with us and had a picnic lunch at the park. It was beautiful there. I swear it's a hillbilly holiday though. We saw more people that needed dental work than I've seen in one place in a LONG time.
Next time we'll have to take Sammie (our dog) we didn't know that dogs are welcome there. :( Next time she's coming with us!
Check out the slide show for pics of our day.
The kids caught a crawdad, it was a baby one. I wish I'd have had the camera with me, but I didn't. Alyssia wanted it to pinch her, she Alejandro held it out.....it grabbed onto her finger and she screamed so loud, I swear I about wet myself. She wasn't hurt, it just pinched a bit. She flung that sucker through the air. It was hilarious!
We took two coolers with us and had a picnic lunch at the park. It was beautiful there. I swear it's a hillbilly holiday though. We saw more people that needed dental work than I've seen in one place in a LONG time.
Next time we'll have to take Sammie (our dog) we didn't know that dogs are welcome there. :( Next time she's coming with us!
Check out the slide show for pics of our day.
Tuesday, May 22, 2007
I'm a number cruncher!
My new job consists of crunching numbers! I hate numbers. Bleh. This is great job experience though.
I got a call today from the school where I work. They want me to work summer school. I had to tell them no. :( It would have been more money, closer to home, less days a week, but.........I already obligated myself to this job, so I feel I should follow through. Sigh. It was a tough call. I'm really enjoying not spending all day with kids though, it makes me appreciate my kids more. I actually want to spend time with my kids now. Tomorrow we are going to the beach. YAY.
I've decided to go back to the school in the fall though. I love being on the same schedule. I think I've talked about this already though.
We are going to Oklahoma to see my Dad in July. We leave here the end of June and will be gone for two weeks. I'm so excited!! It will have been just about a year since I've seen my Dad. I'll also get to see Sally. :D
We are all ready for a break from the daily grind. I didn't even get a day off between jobs. I just started Monday and school ended Friday. Whew, I'll be glad for a break.
Dad has all kinds of fun stuff lined up for the time we'll be there. A ball game on the 4th of July, a trip to the go carts (which we all LOVE), the zoo, and lots of other stuff. We don't need to be entertained, we want to spend time with him! He totally digs on doing this stuff though. I think we'll even take the kids to the Oklahoma City Memorial again. They don't remember going since it was right after we moved there.
Off to bed, work in the am. Dang sometimes being a grown up is a drag.
Oh, wish us luck, results for Master come out in two weeks. Cross those fingers for us, please!! We really, really need this. If Jose makes Master, we get to move right into base housing. YAY. So, please, say those prayers for us.
I got a call today from the school where I work. They want me to work summer school. I had to tell them no. :( It would have been more money, closer to home, less days a week, but.........I already obligated myself to this job, so I feel I should follow through. Sigh. It was a tough call. I'm really enjoying not spending all day with kids though, it makes me appreciate my kids more. I actually want to spend time with my kids now. Tomorrow we are going to the beach. YAY.
I've decided to go back to the school in the fall though. I love being on the same schedule. I think I've talked about this already though.
We are going to Oklahoma to see my Dad in July. We leave here the end of June and will be gone for two weeks. I'm so excited!! It will have been just about a year since I've seen my Dad. I'll also get to see Sally. :D
We are all ready for a break from the daily grind. I didn't even get a day off between jobs. I just started Monday and school ended Friday. Whew, I'll be glad for a break.
Dad has all kinds of fun stuff lined up for the time we'll be there. A ball game on the 4th of July, a trip to the go carts (which we all LOVE), the zoo, and lots of other stuff. We don't need to be entertained, we want to spend time with him! He totally digs on doing this stuff though. I think we'll even take the kids to the Oklahoma City Memorial again. They don't remember going since it was right after we moved there.
Off to bed, work in the am. Dang sometimes being a grown up is a drag.
Oh, wish us luck, results for Master come out in two weeks. Cross those fingers for us, please!! We really, really need this. If Jose makes Master, we get to move right into base housing. YAY. So, please, say those prayers for us.
Sunday, May 13, 2007
Happy Mother's Day
We celebrated yesterday because Jose is off to Little Rock for six days. A military thing, shh, don't ask. If I told you why he's there, I'd have to kill you and I don't have enough air miles. :P
I was really thrilled with my Mother's Day. We had a great day. I got a few things I really wanted, a few things I didn't know I wanted till I had, and a great meal at the Hibachi. Mmm. The kids love days we celebrate me. LOL. They get to eat out on those days.
I had to get up and take Jose to the airport (if you can call it that) and he said to me, "What a great Mother's Day, you get to drive me to the airport." It made me sad because my Mother's Day was yesterday and he felt that he had somehow done something wrong by leaving today. I love that man.
I haven't called my Mother yet. I dread it. When I talk to her I feel that I have to entertain her. Keep her laughing so I don't have to hear how "sad and lonely" she is. Self inflicted lonliness should not count. PERIOD. I don't want to hear that her life is shit. I'm sorry, it's hard enough to keep myself floating above depression without hearing about hers and being backhandedly blamed for it.
So HAPPY MOTHER'S DAY world. Ha ha. My life is a comedy.
I was really thrilled with my Mother's Day. We had a great day. I got a few things I really wanted, a few things I didn't know I wanted till I had, and a great meal at the Hibachi. Mmm. The kids love days we celebrate me. LOL. They get to eat out on those days.
I had to get up and take Jose to the airport (if you can call it that) and he said to me, "What a great Mother's Day, you get to drive me to the airport." It made me sad because my Mother's Day was yesterday and he felt that he had somehow done something wrong by leaving today. I love that man.
I haven't called my Mother yet. I dread it. When I talk to her I feel that I have to entertain her. Keep her laughing so I don't have to hear how "sad and lonely" she is. Self inflicted lonliness should not count. PERIOD. I don't want to hear that her life is shit. I'm sorry, it's hard enough to keep myself floating above depression without hearing about hers and being backhandedly blamed for it.
So HAPPY MOTHER'S DAY world. Ha ha. My life is a comedy.
Sunday, May 06, 2007
Random musings
1. Why do the Mario characters on Super Smash Brothers look like The Village People in training?
2. Why are Doritos's so dang addicting?
3. Why do I have to crave chocolate when my period is coming? Why can't I crave exercise or water?
4. Why does it feel like a school year lasts an eternity?
5. Why can't some people give up control of a NON-Profit organization? Especially after lamenting to any and all people that they're tired of it?
6. Why can't some people grow up?
7. Why isn't it legal to retire (shoot) people whose gene pools are too shallow to procreate?
8. Why can you not give up your monthlies once you are done having kids? I'd like to donate mine to a woman who can't have them.
9. Isn't it funny that it is ILLEGAL to talk on your cellphone while driving, yet I see police doing it all the time?
10. Why is racial profiling and legislated racism okay?
11. Why do people say the United States is the greatest country in the world, then COMPLAIN about some of the freedoms we DO have?
2. Why are Doritos's so dang addicting?
3. Why do I have to crave chocolate when my period is coming? Why can't I crave exercise or water?
4. Why does it feel like a school year lasts an eternity?
5. Why can't some people give up control of a NON-Profit organization? Especially after lamenting to any and all people that they're tired of it?
6. Why can't some people grow up?
7. Why isn't it legal to retire (shoot) people whose gene pools are too shallow to procreate?
8. Why can you not give up your monthlies once you are done having kids? I'd like to donate mine to a woman who can't have them.
9. Isn't it funny that it is ILLEGAL to talk on your cellphone while driving, yet I see police doing it all the time?
10. Why is racial profiling and legislated racism okay?
11. Why do people say the United States is the greatest country in the world, then COMPLAIN about some of the freedoms we DO have?
Wednesday, May 02, 2007
And another thing >:(
I get really pissed at people on a certain site that think the entire universe revolves around them. Never there for anyone else, never reply to people, yet come to this place and expect people to fawn all over them. WTH?
Why is it that life is feeling more and more like a year in Elementary school?
Everyone has issues, hell, I'm toting a bag full of them myself. 99% of my life is kept inside this house we pay an ungodly amount of money to live in till we get base housing.
I just don't get the whole: I'm going to spill my guts to the universe about every bowel movement, issue/non issue in my life. Are people that bored? Are they that insecure? Are they that needy?
Being something of a loner, I don't get it. I rarely open myself to true friendship, when I do, it's for life. I'm like one of those animals that mate for life I guess. Once I've taken you into my confidence, you're in. A few exceptions to that rule would be people that change after you get to know them. The honeymoon ends and they are psycho bitches or something. There is only room for one psycho bitch in my friendships and I've CORNERED that market, thanks.
Anyway, back on tangent. I start to distance myself from certain places online because I want to say something extremely mean and hurtful in the hopes that some will go away forever. So....let me wave my magic wand and beat the shit out of people with it. Will that work for you? No? Well, at least it makes ME feel better.
Why is it that life is feeling more and more like a year in Elementary school?
Everyone has issues, hell, I'm toting a bag full of them myself. 99% of my life is kept inside this house we pay an ungodly amount of money to live in till we get base housing.
I just don't get the whole: I'm going to spill my guts to the universe about every bowel movement, issue/non issue in my life. Are people that bored? Are they that insecure? Are they that needy?
Being something of a loner, I don't get it. I rarely open myself to true friendship, when I do, it's for life. I'm like one of those animals that mate for life I guess. Once I've taken you into my confidence, you're in. A few exceptions to that rule would be people that change after you get to know them. The honeymoon ends and they are psycho bitches or something. There is only room for one psycho bitch in my friendships and I've CORNERED that market, thanks.
Anyway, back on tangent. I start to distance myself from certain places online because I want to say something extremely mean and hurtful in the hopes that some will go away forever. So....let me wave my magic wand and beat the shit out of people with it. Will that work for you? No? Well, at least it makes ME feel better.
11.5 days left, repeat, 11.5 days left
We have that many days left of school. YAY! I'm one of those weird parents that likes when the kids are home from school. I love the fact that I won't have to get up and rush around yelling at the kids to get out the door. I love that we'll get to visit my Dad, who I miss so much I hurt. I love the fact that we are now in a place where we can drive down the road a few miles and sit on a white sand beach all day.
I don't like the fact that I will not have an income during the summer. Yikes! That really scares me. I'm trying to find something that will get me through the summer, I just haven't yet.
Things are crazy busy around here. Between soccer for two kids, Band Boosters (which I am President of), end of year activities at three schools and work, I am flat out exhausted.
I feel like I am home one night a week. I want to sit here and not have the phone ring. Is that too much to ask?
My IL's want the kids to fly out to Cali ON THEIR OWN. Yeah, not happening. I am not putting my four kids on an airplane with layovers (two) to send them across the country. Just not gonna happen. I'm the big baddie because I won't let my kids fly without an adult present. Elizabeth is too young to have to be responsible for her three siblings like that. Jose has lost his mind and seems to think it's ok. Well, it's not.
Of course I'd like for the kids to be able to visit family, of course I'd like to have time where Jose and I could be alone for a month. Of course I would LOVE to get the kids out there. Just not like this. It would also make it easier for me not to work if they are not here eating us out of the house. I just can't feel good about this in my heart, so the answer is a resounding NO. Am I a bad person? I don't think so. I'd like to think not anyway. I know that I am not a terrific person, but in this I will not waiver.
Anyway, all I can think about right now is the 11.5 days of work I have left.
I don't like the fact that I will not have an income during the summer. Yikes! That really scares me. I'm trying to find something that will get me through the summer, I just haven't yet.
Things are crazy busy around here. Between soccer for two kids, Band Boosters (which I am President of), end of year activities at three schools and work, I am flat out exhausted.
I feel like I am home one night a week. I want to sit here and not have the phone ring. Is that too much to ask?
My IL's want the kids to fly out to Cali ON THEIR OWN. Yeah, not happening. I am not putting my four kids on an airplane with layovers (two) to send them across the country. Just not gonna happen. I'm the big baddie because I won't let my kids fly without an adult present. Elizabeth is too young to have to be responsible for her three siblings like that. Jose has lost his mind and seems to think it's ok. Well, it's not.
Of course I'd like for the kids to be able to visit family, of course I'd like to have time where Jose and I could be alone for a month. Of course I would LOVE to get the kids out there. Just not like this. It would also make it easier for me not to work if they are not here eating us out of the house. I just can't feel good about this in my heart, so the answer is a resounding NO. Am I a bad person? I don't think so. I'd like to think not anyway. I know that I am not a terrific person, but in this I will not waiver.
Anyway, all I can think about right now is the 11.5 days of work I have left.
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